As Interim Program Director I have been put in situations where I have had to deal with conflict. If you know me outside of camp, you know I can be extremely passive aggressive in how I handle difficult situations. At camp, being passive does not cut it at all; I have to confront staff, deal with fights between campers, resolve mis-communication between myself, Core Staff, and Summer Staff. If I allow myself to take a back seat in handling conflict, issues will not get solved and they will grow into a big, hairy monster we have to deal with. Why talk about conflict today?
If you are reading with my in Galatians 2 you will see why:
What stands out to me: Verse 11 stands out to me!
Why does it stand out to me: Paul was still new into preaching the Gospel to the Gentiles. He received confirmation from Peter, James, and John (Learned from the last section). Here he is presented with a conflict. Peter went back on his word, and let others guide his preaching.
How does this apply in my life: So, I have tried to write this a bunch of times trying to make it sound all cool and smart. But I have erased it every time. The application from this verse which makes the most sense in my life is that I need to be willing to call people out when they have gone against their word or if they are not living a life which honors God; no matter what position I am in or what position the person I am confronting is in. Paul did this with Peter. I am pretty sure that outweighs any conflict I have ever had to deal with in my life.
If you think about me this weekend, there are lots of funerals today. Two dear friends of mine suffered some incredible losses in their lives this past week. Please pray for all of those grieving today. Also, Camp is hosting Dads 'N' Lads this weekend; please pray for open doors and great ministry opportunities.
See you all tomorrow! Galatians 2:15-21.
In His service,CrazyPete
I tend to do the same thing. I personally will sometimes avoid conflict or just ignor situations. I have been known to call conflict "drama". I don't like getting involved with circles of drama. But I should. Especially when people are being disrespecful or are dishonoring God. I have always had trouble confronting my close friends on things because I was affraid they would get mad at me or even stop being my friend. Sounds junior high, I know. Again I agree with you Pete. We need to just take that step and confront someone if it is needed.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry about the losses that you and your friends are dealing with. You will be in my prayers.